so I was surfing on the web and found this:
http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-find-true-love/
and here are my “minimum requirements” (aka MR):
1. Smart
2. Helpful, Friendly
3. Able to laugh about himself / not taking himself too seriously
4. Great temper
5. Respect of family
6. Ambitious
7. Hardworking
8. Able to forgive and let things go (not spiteful)
9. Generally happy / Optimist
Appreciated bonuses:
- Speaks Chinese (used to be a MR even if ex doesn’t 
)
- Doesn’t need too much attention
- Tall, Strong
- Patient
- Generous
- Great Communicator (almost a MR)
- Cultivated about Chinese culture (almost a MR)
- Understand importance of money without being too sucked into it
- Leader / Ready to take initiatives
- Engineer / Geek
- Slightly chubby
